What spider said. Be concise with your questions and don't "push" the cards, accept the answer they give you. Word the question as precisely as possible, because that's what the cards will answer.
Myperception wrote: ↑07 Aug 2019, 09:06
For Tarot - Do you ask YES / NO questions? Or using HOW, WHY, WHEN, WHERE, WHAT, WHO, COULD, SHOULD?
For Lenormand - Do you ask question by focusing on the potential outcome? Or the process / advise to take to achieve the desire outcome?
I don't have different ways of phrasing questions for Lenormand and Tarot. Either one should work.
I do ask yes/no questions of both.
Also who-what-where-when-how-why.
I avoid "should" questions. Rather, I will ask "What will happen if I do X?" and if the result isn't satisfactory, I'll ask what will be the result of doing Y, doing nothing, etc.
The cards aren't responsible for telling us what we "should" do. I use the cards to see how various actions will play out and choose accordingly. I don't view the cards as a parent or some kind of elder who gives moral guidance, but rather as a device for seeing around corners. It's up to us to choose a course of action.