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Quicksand
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Hello, I need a help

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I'm brand new in this world and I please anyone here for help with reading. I met one guy and I liked him; probably he liked me too, but not that way like me. I asked the tarot "Have I a chance to be with him in partnership in future?" King of cups/queen of wands/10 of pents

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You got the same cards twice because you didn't shuffle your deck well. You likely got sequential cards because you didn't shuffle the deck well. Make sure that, after a reading, you put each card back in at a random spot in the deck and cut the deck frequently.

So I don't believe your draw is valid because I doubt your deck was properly mixed.

Why two cards? One or three is much more common for beginners and are generally easier to interpret.

I'd also avoid asking a yes/no question like "will he miss me". Try something more open ended like "What are his thoughts about me? " or "How does he feel about me?

If I were to interpret your two cards I'd say that he thinks of you more like a little sister or maybe an underling. But, again, I don't think you made a valid draw.
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It's better that you rephrase your questions, it's like you asking for a guidance than a yes/no answer. Reshuffle the deck in detail, don't rush & cut your deck, draw a 3 cards as new reading. And you see what the cards tell you.
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Myperception wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 01:53 It's better that you rephrase your questions, it's like you asking for a guidance than a yes/no answer. Reshuffle the deck in detail, don't rush & cut your deck, draw a 3 cards as new reading. And you see what the cards tell you.
I re-asked the cards and for 3 cards combo.
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Quicksand wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 01:33 I'm brand new in this world and I please anyone here for help with reading. I met one guy and I liked him; probably he liked me too, but not that way like me. I asked the tarot "Have I a chance to be with him in partnership in future?" King of cups/queen of wands/10 of pents

thank you
What's your interpretation?
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katrinka wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 05:25 What's your interpretation?
People are happy to help if you're making an effort, but free readings - forget it. At least try to interpret your cards, otherwise you're just trying to use us.
Or to put it another way, Welcome to the forum Quicksand.

There are many people here who would be happy to lend their assistance but first it is customary for you to try first to interpret your reading.

People here love to help and contribute so make an effort an you will earn their generosity and good will.

Good luck! ❤️ We would love to see what you think the cards meant for you!
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katrinka wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 05:25
Quicksand wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 01:33 I'm brand new in this world and I please anyone here for help with reading. I met one guy and I liked him; probably he liked me too, but not that way like me. I asked the tarot "Have I a chance to be with him in partnership in future?" King of cups/queen of wands/10 of pents

thank you
What's your interpretation?
People are happy to help if you're making an effort, but free readings - forget it. At least try to interpret your cards, otherwise you're just trying to use us.
King of cups - is person who has lots of love, but obviously is he just dreamy and can be irresponsible. But romantic, at this point is he mature in feelings.
Queen of wands - is a woman who knows what she wants and how it wants, sexual symbol, sometimes she can be manipulative, but still useful. Very smart.
10 of pents- is about people "around", family, friends, but something "official", "public". Home, stable situation.
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Quicksand wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 08:05
katrinka wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 05:25
Quicksand wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 01:33 I'm brand new in this world and I please anyone here for help with reading. I met one guy and I liked him; probably he liked me too, but not that way like me. I asked the tarot "Have I a chance to be with him in partnership in future?" King of cups/queen of wands/10 of pents

thank you
What's your interpretation?
People are happy to help if you're making an effort, but free readings - forget it. At least try to interpret your cards, otherwise you're just trying to use us.
King of cups - is person who has lots of love, but obviously is he just dreamy and can be irresponsible. But romantic, at this point is he mature in feelings.
Yes. His feelings are strong, but not stable or reliable. They change. He's the proverbial "feather in the wind" - there one day, blown away the next.
Queen of wands - is a woman who knows what she wants and how it wants, sexual symbol, sometimes she can be manipulative, but still useful. Very smart.
We need to determine who she is. You? Or someone he's involved with already?
She's actually very similar to the Knight, with shifting emotions. Fire to his water - that makes steam. Lots of short-lived arguments, break up/make up. If she's not you, she might be that "ex" who is never really out of the picture. She knows how to pull his strings, at least some of them. The "wind" to his "feather".
10 of pents- is about people "around", family, friends, but something "official", "public". Home, stable situation.
Yes, and it's a wealth card. With the Queen of Wands, she might be holding the purse strings. So if the Queen is you, be careful, he's a bit of a gigolo. If she's someone else, it will be nigh impossible to get him to stop seeing her, since he relies on her for financial help.

Yes, you absolutely can have a relationship with this man. But it may not be the relationship you want. He looks like he keeps the ladies on a string, but doesn't fully commit.
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katrinka wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 08:39
Quicksand wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 08:05
katrinka wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 05:25

What's your interpretation?
People are happy to help if you're making an effort, but free readings - forget it. At least try to interpret your cards, otherwise you're just trying to use us.
King of cups - is person who has lots of love, but obviously is he just dreamy and can be irresponsible. But romantic, at this point is he mature in feelings.
Yes. His feelings are strong, but not stable or reliable. They change. He's the proverbial "feather in the wind" - there one day, blown away the next.
Queen of wands - is a woman who knows what she wants and how it wants, sexual symbol, sometimes she can be manipulative, but still useful. Very smart.
We need to determine who she is. You? Or someone he's involved with already?
She's actually very similar to the Knight, with shifting emotions. Fire to his water - that makes steam. Lots of short-lived arguments, break up/make up. If she's not you, she might be that "ex" who is never really out of the picture. She knows how to pull his strings, at least some of them. The "wind" to his "feather".
10 of pents- is about people "around", family, friends, but something "official", "public". Home, stable situation.
Yes, and it's a wealth card. With the Queen of Wands, she might be holding the purse strings. So if the Queen is you, be careful, he's a bit of a gigolo. If she's someone else, it will be nigh impossible to get him to stop seeing her, since he relies on her for financial help.

Yes, you absolutely can have a relationship with this man. But it may not be the relationship you want. He looks like he keeps the ladies on a string, but doesn't fully commit.
It's difficult. Because he is more like queen of swords in personality and feelings tbh. I feel like both of cards, and probably can be close to queen of wands, he one days is interested in me and the next day he is ignoring me. But at some point he has someone, then he left that relationship in 3 weeks, during these 3 weeks ignore me, and come back to me then. Idk what to think of it. Probably he is not type for serious relationship. I asked the tarot if he is my soulmate and got Magician + Queen Of Wands.
I guess we both have lots of lessions for learn each other, but who knows if ever it can happen in future. But for future I got many positive reads I remember. But who knows.
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katrinka wrote: 09 Jun 2019, 08:39 Yes, you absolutely can have a relationship with this man. But it may not be the relationship you want. He looks like he keeps the ladies on a string, but doesn't fully commit.
what do you think of it?
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It depends on you. Some people are fine with an open/off and on relationship. Others aren't.
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