Bad Deck Reviews: Fair or Just Mean?
Posted: 14 Jan 2022, 09:48
Who doesn’t love a “10 Worst” list?
Isn’t the “10 Worst Films of the Year” list a million times more fun to hear or read than the 10 Best?
And the Worst Dressed list (with pictures!) is so much better than the 10 Best dressed. I mean anybody should be able to look good in a $10,000 gown and jewels but it takes a special talent to look awful for that much money.
Despite my affection for the special enthusiasm and wit that reviewers put into “Worst” lists, there was one I objected to a couple of years ago that I now have second thoughts about.
A tarot podcast I enjoy was promoting a “10 Worst Tarot Decks” of whatever year it was. (As the pandemic has now stretched into literal years, I’ve totally lost track of time except I’m sure it was B.C. – before Covid)
I could tell they were going to have some fun with that topic on their podcast. My darker side was super-curious. But my deck creator side felt differently.
I know well what goes into creating a deck and getting it produced. It’s a lot. And for pretty small reward in most cases, at least in comparison to what goes into it. Some call it a “labour of love” but I see more as a labour of obsession. You have be just a wee bit crazy to start a deck project of 78 individual pieces of art and to carry it all the way through to production and delivery. It requires a very special kind of compulsion.
So the idea of ripping to shreds someone’s little deck just felt really mean to me.
I wrote to the podcasters and explained my feelings.
I said that shredding the work of a Jennifer Lawrence or Leonardo DiCaprio might be a bit mean too but they can go cry into their giant piles of money, take a luxurious vacation and then move on to their next multi-million dollar paycheck project.
But you tear apart some little tarot deck that isn’t to your taste and you’ve stabbed the soul of a (probably) very sensitive person who has invested much more time and money into the project than they can really afford. You’ve cost them some of the few sales they can look forward to that would cover some of their costs and time.
It seemed more cruel that it would be entertaining.
They agreed, at least one of them did, and as far as I know, they never did that podcast.
But now I think I regret talking them out of it.
Mostly because it was none of my business. It was their podcast. Who was I to tell them how to run it? (I was only suggesting really, they could have ignored me but I did compose a pretty convincing argument.)
With their senses of humour, I’m sure it would have been funny and entertaining and they may have brought out some very good points in general about deck creation that needed to be heard.
On the other hand, I would really feel bad for any deck creator whose work was subject to such a skewering.
On the other hand, (?) a savvy deck creator could use the opportunity to counter their opinion much like actors who win “Razzies” do. It can be very endearing and also very funny.
Sandra Bullock responding to winning the Razzie Award for Worst Actress
We need to have a better sense of humour.
As we talked about in the previous Devil’s Advocate topic Consuming the Tarot there is a massive uptick in the sheer number of decks being produced. On the one hand this shows just how wide the interest in Tarot is, which is great, on the other, well, maybe all this deck creation needs to be reigned in a bit and some more focus put on certain points of quality. The audience needs to get a little more discerning and some honest reviews could help.
But we have to be careful because a bad review can be very damaging, hurtful and just plain mean. Not every reviewer possesses the humour and understanding to do it well and not every deck creator can handle it like Sandra Bullock who has a pile of money to cry in when she’s sad because someone doesn’t like her work.
It’s important for a reviewer to find the good things in a deck even if it isn’t their cup of tea, and to note what they don’t like with some style. You have to be a pretty good writer to write a negative review that isn’t just mean.
It’s also important for the consumers to become not only discerning about decks but also about how they read reviews. Have you ever loved a movie the critics hated? Of course you have. You read the review and could see that it was quite possible that your opinion of the film will be different. (When critics say that a movie is "slow" I'm pretty sure I will love it.) We often disagree with reviewers who we really like, who we usually agree with. It makes the relationship interesting.
Bad reviews, or not just bad, but less than glowing let’s say, can open the doors to great conversations, rebuttals from artists and fans of the deck.
But it is a slippery damn slope.
What do you think? Are we mature enough to handle this? I mean from artist to reviewer to consumer. All of us. One problem is it is a relatively small community. That can make criticism dicey. But as the Devil’s Advocate likes to say, Dicey is Fun!!
(reminder: please read the guidelines in the pink box at the top of this page before replying. Thank you!!)
Isn’t the “10 Worst Films of the Year” list a million times more fun to hear or read than the 10 Best?
And the Worst Dressed list (with pictures!) is so much better than the 10 Best dressed. I mean anybody should be able to look good in a $10,000 gown and jewels but it takes a special talent to look awful for that much money.
Despite my affection for the special enthusiasm and wit that reviewers put into “Worst” lists, there was one I objected to a couple of years ago that I now have second thoughts about.
A tarot podcast I enjoy was promoting a “10 Worst Tarot Decks” of whatever year it was. (As the pandemic has now stretched into literal years, I’ve totally lost track of time except I’m sure it was B.C. – before Covid)
I could tell they were going to have some fun with that topic on their podcast. My darker side was super-curious. But my deck creator side felt differently.
I know well what goes into creating a deck and getting it produced. It’s a lot. And for pretty small reward in most cases, at least in comparison to what goes into it. Some call it a “labour of love” but I see more as a labour of obsession. You have be just a wee bit crazy to start a deck project of 78 individual pieces of art and to carry it all the way through to production and delivery. It requires a very special kind of compulsion.
So the idea of ripping to shreds someone’s little deck just felt really mean to me.
I wrote to the podcasters and explained my feelings.
I said that shredding the work of a Jennifer Lawrence or Leonardo DiCaprio might be a bit mean too but they can go cry into their giant piles of money, take a luxurious vacation and then move on to their next multi-million dollar paycheck project.
But you tear apart some little tarot deck that isn’t to your taste and you’ve stabbed the soul of a (probably) very sensitive person who has invested much more time and money into the project than they can really afford. You’ve cost them some of the few sales they can look forward to that would cover some of their costs and time.
It seemed more cruel that it would be entertaining.
They agreed, at least one of them did, and as far as I know, they never did that podcast.
But now I think I regret talking them out of it.
Mostly because it was none of my business. It was their podcast. Who was I to tell them how to run it? (I was only suggesting really, they could have ignored me but I did compose a pretty convincing argument.)
With their senses of humour, I’m sure it would have been funny and entertaining and they may have brought out some very good points in general about deck creation that needed to be heard.
On the other hand, I would really feel bad for any deck creator whose work was subject to such a skewering.
On the other hand, (?) a savvy deck creator could use the opportunity to counter their opinion much like actors who win “Razzies” do. It can be very endearing and also very funny.
Sandra Bullock responding to winning the Razzie Award for Worst Actress
We need to have a better sense of humour.
As we talked about in the previous Devil’s Advocate topic Consuming the Tarot there is a massive uptick in the sheer number of decks being produced. On the one hand this shows just how wide the interest in Tarot is, which is great, on the other, well, maybe all this deck creation needs to be reigned in a bit and some more focus put on certain points of quality. The audience needs to get a little more discerning and some honest reviews could help.
But we have to be careful because a bad review can be very damaging, hurtful and just plain mean. Not every reviewer possesses the humour and understanding to do it well and not every deck creator can handle it like Sandra Bullock who has a pile of money to cry in when she’s sad because someone doesn’t like her work.
It’s important for a reviewer to find the good things in a deck even if it isn’t their cup of tea, and to note what they don’t like with some style. You have to be a pretty good writer to write a negative review that isn’t just mean.
It’s also important for the consumers to become not only discerning about decks but also about how they read reviews. Have you ever loved a movie the critics hated? Of course you have. You read the review and could see that it was quite possible that your opinion of the film will be different. (When critics say that a movie is "slow" I'm pretty sure I will love it.) We often disagree with reviewers who we really like, who we usually agree with. It makes the relationship interesting.
Bad reviews, or not just bad, but less than glowing let’s say, can open the doors to great conversations, rebuttals from artists and fans of the deck.
But it is a slippery damn slope.
What do you think? Are we mature enough to handle this? I mean from artist to reviewer to consumer. All of us. One problem is it is a relatively small community. That can make criticism dicey. But as the Devil’s Advocate likes to say, Dicey is Fun!!
(reminder: please read the guidelines in the pink box at the top of this page before replying. Thank you!!)