Is it weird to ask your cards if you'll marry someone after a first date?

[ssstarlighttt]

This is a midnight thought I just had:

How common is it for people to do tarot readings for themselves/others asking if they'll marry the person they had one date with or even before meeting them in person (for those that met online)?

I remember I used to do this when I was younger, I guess it came from a space of not wanting to waste my time or being a hopeless romantic. Now that I'm older, I'd rather just go with the flow and see what happens without consulting divination so early on..

Interested in your thoughts. Stay blessed

[Pen]

Hi ssstarlighttt, I don't know the answer to your question, but it reminded me of something we used to do at school, although I can't remember exactly how it worked. I think we used to write both names on a piece of paper before crossing out the letters in each name that were the same (or maybe the ones that were different?), then using what seems to me now to be a version of gematria to work out a a 'yes' or a 'no'. I could easily be remembering this incorrectly but I know it began with writing down both names before some sort of process. So I don't think the idea is weird at all, but maybe something almost instinctive. Another thing we used to do was to peel an apple - preferably into one long curly strip before throwing it backwards over the shoulder - it was supposed to land making the initial of the person you'd marry.

[BlueStar]

I don't think its necessarily weird, but not something I would personally do. I can understand why someone might do it though. My concern would be that it could colour the person's approach to the relationship. What if perhaps the relationship would be relevant or important for that person in their life's journey but they break from the person because it looked like the cards were saying no? Maybe the partner is not someone they eventually marry but could be a life long friend or bring meaningful situations, experiences or things to be learned into their life.

Just my thoughts:)